I had an "incident" where someone had told my parents and I somethings that were, at the time, hurtful, about me. I had no idea where it was all coming from and why on earth they were saying this. To be honest though, what hurt was that I wasn't "liked" by them, and that maybe they were "spreading lies" about me to other people. They didn't see me as the perfect human being that I was! They didn't see how good I was with A, B, and C. How could they say these awful things without even hardly knowing me?! So my first thought.... just ignore them in public next time I see them. They would see that they hurt my poor feelings and then be tripping over themselves to apologize to me! What a wonderful example of Christ's forgiveness and love I would be displaying, huh? Well, somehow in my selfish, mean, manipulative thoughts, Christ spoke through them. How could I demand kindness and a "sorry, do you forgive me" attitude from this person when I myself wasn't willing to do the same and to forgive them first? As hard as it was, and probably not extremely heartfelt the first time, I began to pray for this person, asking God to first change my heart, attitude and thinking toward them, and then to show them His love through me. WOW. On my own I would have never thought about showing them love! And ya know what? He did. ASK and it shall be given to you. He began to work in my heart. He began to help me show love. But only because Christ's Spirit convicted me, only because Christ's love covered me, and only through Christ's Power I was able to "overcome" these hard-to-take words, and not-so-sweet-and-kind to me person. And now, through Christ, I am able to thank Him for this person. If not for them, I wouldn't be conscious of the words I speak and wouldn't be praying about it so often. I wouldn't have had to go to Christ so often about this situation if it never happened, missing out on an opportunity to enter into HIS Awesome and Holy presence! I wouldn't have gotten the insights and verses that He gave me for that trial. I wouldn't have been able to be around this person and feel comfortable, if you know what I mean. ;) Now, I can see this person a little differently, and somehow, in God's goodness, He has allowed me to see them as He sees them. As a dear child of HIS.
So, moral of the story... Don't think too hard about mean-hearted words that have been said about you. Give it to Christ! He can restore. He can heal. He can convict and comfort. And if Christ is for us, who can be against us?! LIVE today, don't let words drag you down or make you feel any less of a person! This life is but a vapor, focus on the things that matter, on things that are eternal! Speak words of LIFE, not words that will hurt. PRAY. Pray for your thoughts and words to be honoring to our great God. I know, it's really hard at first... I'm not one to hold back my first initial opinion. I tend to say the first thing that pops in my head. But if we're consistent in our praying, focusing on Christ, asking for HIS words to fill our mouths, then we will be more than conquerors! We must decrease so Christ can increase.
"Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in YOUR sight, O Lord, my Strength, and my Redeemer." Psalm 19:14
Words can build you up
Words can break you down
Start a fire in your heart or
Put it out
Let my words be life
Let my words be truth
I don't wanna say a word
Unless it points the world back to You!
Words can break you down
Start a fire in your heart or
Put it out
Let my words be life
Let my words be truth
I don't wanna say a word
Unless it points the world back to You!